Feel Good 5 Friday …

4 Dec

Sometimes you say the truth and it’s too strong for people. You make a mental note and then remember the next time around. Some people enjoy telling you like it is, but don’t enjoy it when you return the favor. The opinion they’ve asked for is no longer welcome.

You know anyone like that?

It can be emotionally and mentally exhausting dealing with that in your life. No matter how many times you let the words slide off your back some of them scrape your skin on the way down and leave a mark. Building strength to deal with that when you’re trying to avoid it is tough. Deep breaths don’t always come to mind but getting away, taking a walk, and turning your phone off, that’s something. That’s a moment that can build.

During a recent escape I found myself trying to think of a happier place. After the run, I remembered multiple flashbacks when the kids were younger. I shifted my attention and emptied the space this frustration was taking up and filled it with these memories of toy cars, bubbles, Crayola squiggly art, squishy hugs and tiny hands.

I sighed because the peoples were right.

I blinked and now they’re much bigger.

But it didn’t feel like a blink though. I felt some of those days. They were long and I was grateful when the moon came out. I got the gray hairs to prove it. But they’re bigger and it feels fast now. Although the pandemic is definitely making the days last longer than anyone would have thought.

I watched old videos of Monster Trucks and book festival outings, of inflatable pool splashing, little league baseball games, Play-Doh creations and first days of school. I filled my heart with these memories and a strong urge to preserve it radiated. And then it came to me … instead of dealing with people who aggravate me with their one-sided courtesies and spite, I should fill my space with more talks, movie nights, and board game sessions so in a couple of years I don’t feel like the blink was too fast.

It’s not that easy, of course. We’re you’re in the middle of it, you feel like there’s nothing else that you can see. So another mental note, give more space and more compartments in my mind so that what matters and what’s positive can sneak in instead of the anxiety inducing conversations I replay in my head.

I mean I know I can’t turn it off instantly, but as soon as I feel it coming on, definitely activate the force field so that I can give even more time to people and moments that fill you up instead of making you create invisible barriers to help protect yourself from anxiety and bad vibes. As my girl Tabitha says … That’s just not in my spirit. So I’m hoping to continue to focus on the switch and this week the tunes from my past help jumpstart that pathway. I don’t know what it is, but the tunes from the past keep making me feel good. Don’t get me wrong the music is good today. I mean there’s The Zac Brown Band, right? But something about the growing up tunes that always produce the good vibes that create the smile and boost I need.

Buen Camino my friends!

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The Greatest American Hero Theme Song — Believe it or Not

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Tiffany — I Think We’re Alone Now

DeBarge — Rhythm of The Night

Claridad — Menudo

Tears for Fears — Everybody Wants to Rule The World

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13 Responses to “Feel Good 5 Friday …”

  1. Sorryless December 6, 2020 at 4:21 PM #

    I loved that song AND that show. And I remember the movie “The Last Dragon”? from the eighties as well. And well, any tune from the eighties is plenty fine with me.

    I get where you’re coming from. We would like to think we have a ready made answer for this stuff, but it’s not always like that. Sometimes we fall and we stay down to the eight or nine before getting up because we’re just tired, damn tired. And then we find our knees and we unbuckle them and we get up and we fight some more. But yanno . . sometimes it gets exhausting.

    Thank God for the music.

    • The Guat December 19, 2020 at 12:22 AM #

      Totally exhausting. But the music does help and remembering certain realizations that you left on the back burner simmering, c’mon now. Giddy up with that. It’s always good when you remember time be BIG and you can’t be wasting it on thoughts of people who be trying to add weight to your uphill climb. So I’m up before they got to 9 this time. And Greatest American Hero! C’mon that one makes me smile every time. Ha! The Last Dragon … I had completely forgot about that one. Usually when I think Karate and the 80s I remember wax on wax off and Danielson. What a trip. Thanks for your kind words buddy. 🙂

      • Sorryless December 19, 2020 at 8:28 AM #

        The music and the memories, they do help tons.

        That series was must see for me back in the day. I loved how it parodied the superhero genre. It was so much fun.

        • The Guat December 19, 2020 at 10:01 AM #

          I used to watch it all the time . It was like Super Grover come to life with an awesome theme song.

          • Sorryless December 19, 2020 at 10:06 AM #

            In my opinion, one of the greatest opening songs to a TV show. Ever.

          • The Guat December 19, 2020 at 10:13 AM #

            True that! But that and Sanford & Sons and The Jeffersons. Maybe another Mount Rushmore idea 🙂

          • Sorryless December 19, 2020 at 10:15 AM #

            Yes! Those into songs of the ’70’s . . . we’ll never see that kind of thing again.

          • The Guat December 19, 2020 at 10:17 AM #

            Right?!

          • Sorryless December 19, 2020 at 10:10 AM #

          • The Guat December 19, 2020 at 10:14 AM #

            Makes for a good Saturday Morning 🙂

          • Sorryless December 19, 2020 at 10:16 AM #

            It sure does.

          • The Guat December 19, 2020 at 10:16 AM #

            Thanks hermano!

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