Crisis of Imagination

25 Sep

I need imagination because I can’t see it right now …

Holy crap. That was it.

I had never heard it put that way, but that was it. I had found the right words to try to help my friend understand what was happening. They weren’t mine, but I heard them and I knew why they had come my way. My buddy was stuck in a moment and couldn’t get out of it. Stuck in the hurt. Stuck in the disbelief. Stuck in the ache of their heart. Stuck in the “it is what it is,” situation they thought they’d never find themselves in.

That’s where they were currently residing.

And when I heard these words I knew I had to pass them along. I thought maybe it would bring a sense of comfort, knowing that once they broke through the mind block, they might be able to feel less hurt, and more hope.

You can’t imagine your life like this … You can’t imagine how you’re going to get through it … You can’t imagine life differently. And that’s the point … because you were never supposed to, your future wasn’t supposed to look this way. But now there’s no choice. It’s happening.

Most people go through something like this in their life, whether it’s the loss of a relationship, a dream, or a job. We’re hurting because we’re in the midst a life crisis, suffering a “crisis of imagination.”

We can’t see outside the box and that’s why the hurt lasts so long. That’s why we feel stuck, because we still can’t believe it.

I’m hoping I can help my buddy find some creativity in the unknown future. Help imagination find its way to their doorstep, so they can exhale and begin to heal, begin to realize that they can do it. It’s going to be hard, extremely hard to change their vision, but it’s possible. I’m hoping I can help them out. I’m hoping I can help them imagine that tomorrow’s tomorrow will help them find happiness in the present moment. I’m hoping I can help my friend find the imagination that their not seeing.

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3 Responses to “Crisis of Imagination”

  1. Cayman Thorn September 27, 2015 at 8:29 AM #

    Your post hits close to home, because I happen to believe imagination is the key to so much of what we do. For me, attitude is most important. When I wake up feeling like I want to bury myself under the covers, I have to change it up by bringing my positive attitude out to play. But imagination is right there with it, because it helps paint my day in colors I usually don’t even see coming.

    Best to you and to your friend. Peace.

    • The Guat September 29, 2015 at 5:14 PM #

      Thanks buddy, my friend is doing much better now. Saw her over the weekend and although her situation is tough, she’s seeing the light now…a dim one but she’s pulling through so I’m happy for her. There were times I was right there with her in the lows (and with you on your flashpoints of lights) and I couldn’t get over it…I just couldn’t … then when I heard that awesome piece of wisdom I realized that I had had a crisis of imagination! Duuuuude. Now when stuff like that happens I realize imagination is lacking and try my best to find it….find an explosion of imagination. But you’re right, attitude definitely helps. I wake up and the first thing I think of is turning on that switch to get my attitude right…having my moment (my hour of power which is really 30 minutes) in the quiet of morning before the kids wake up 🙂 music helps for sure 🙂

      • Cayman Thorn September 29, 2015 at 6:27 PM #

        To good friends, tunes and ‘tude.

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