Woo-Hoo For Happy Accidents

25 May

Inspiration. It hits you when you least expect it. 

I often find it in many of my rock-bottom moments. I live by the Lero-Lero Factor, so I most definitely find it when people tell me it can’t be done. But the other day, I found it in the simple sentences on the computer screen.

TBM and the 50 Year Project they’re undergoing sort of lit a fire under my ass. I came across the blog this week and that sort of coincided with my Happiness Project Debut. Serendipitous moment indeed.

I’ve always liked that word. Serendipity. The accidental discovery of something pleasant. In my experience accidents are never pleasant, but on the rare occasion that it does happen–that one time, that one percent out of ninety-nine– I think to myself … you need a great word to describe something like this and that’s probably the reason why the word was invented. It’s one of the great ones.

Anyhow as I came across TBM’s About Page I saw it: “… refocus my negative energy into positive thoughts and inspiration.”

I thought yeah! I need me some of that. Everyone in life has got issues, I’ve got plenty, but I don’t really voice them in the blog. I try to find humor in daily blowouts, successes, and unbearable situations. Humor is what gets me through most of the time.  But  sometimes comedy is hard. So I thought I would combine it with my own Happiness Project, and when I read TBM’s blog I thought wow. I need to do this STAT!

So I’m launching it this weekend. The Summer of The Guat.

But let me back track. I know some people are probably thinking: What the hell is a Happiness Project. I wrote about it briefly a couple of weeks ago when I got an email about books on happiness. And I thought to myself: What the hell? Can they see my suck-ass-jump-off-a-cliff days through these fiber optic wires on the Toshiba  computer’s camera-less screen? Is that why I got the list of these books?


Image via Amazon.com

To be fair, I had heard of  Gretchen Rubin, the author of  The Happiness Project, before I got the email. I came across her book while I was hanging at Barnes & Nobles. Yeah I hang at book stores from time to time.

It chronicles a year in her life and her quest at finding happiness or how to be happier in her current life. It’s like Elizabeth Gilbert‘s Eat, Pray, Love without traveling across the world. It’s trying to find happiness in your own everyday crazy hectic life while living in a small apartment in a big city. Although I loved Gilbert’s book, I sure as hell didn’t have money to travel to three countries in one year.

So this week is the “getting started” phase. Just as TBM narrowed her list to thoroughly enjoying: traveling, reading, and watching movies (something I think is truly awesome) I must come up with my own list of what makes me feel good, gives me joy, energy and fun? What makes me feel right?

Although I will be making my own list, TBM’s top three definitely make it to the getting started phase of my Happiness Project. So I’m off in deep thought and in deep comedy to launch the project. Hope you enjoy what’s to come.

Giddy up!


5 Responses to “Woo-Hoo For Happy Accidents”

  1. TBM May 26, 2012 at 1:14 AM #

    Yippie! I know my challenges have really helped me refocus my negative energy. The little things, and sometimes big things, can weigh us down in this world. I was spending too much time focusing on the bad and not the good. This isn’t to say that I still don’t have to deal with life issues. All of us do. But I don’t get bogged down as much by them. Like you, humor gets me through the bad times. Laughing is one of the best cures.

    I’m so excited to follow you and to hear about your own happiness project. I wish you the best of luck and happy thinking and coming up with your own goals. What a wonderful way to start the summer.

    • The Guat May 26, 2012 at 10:21 PM #

      Thanks so much! I was so glad to have run into your post. I needed that extra push. It was an awesome accidental run-in. Thanks for posting and thanks for writing. You affected change. Hope you enjoy my crazy happiness adventure as well. We’ll see what happens 🙂

      • TBM May 27, 2012 at 1:25 AM #

        Crazy happiness adventure sounds like fun!

  2. Cayman Thorn May 26, 2012 at 3:22 PM #

    Well, giddyap there partner . . . rustle up some happy good feelings.

    • The Guat May 26, 2012 at 10:23 PM #

      I’m a big Kramer fan and he cracks me up with his Giddy Up! I’m definitely trying to rustle up some happy good feelings…hope you enjoy the adventure 🙂

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